At one or many points in your life, you should get lost and feel small. Not at the mercy of another human, or to the point where you can’t find yourself [eventually] again. But in the way that directs your mind to peace, where your worries melt away and you realize how large the world is and how minor your stresses are. This doesn’t mean you’re belittling your issues, or not taking your life seriously. This is a mechanism of the coping variety; take in the world, breathe, sit for a while, and then take on your life with a fresh and clear perspective. My advice: Drive to a beaten…